Yes, bleeding after having sex for the first time is relatively common for some females. The hymen, a thin membrane that partially covers the opening of the vagina, can stretch or tear during sexual penetration, which may cause some bleeding. However, not all females have a hymen or experience bleeding during their first sexual experience, as it can be already stretched or torn due to various activities, including physical exercise.

As for wanting to be held after having sex, it is absolutely normal and understandable. Physical intimacy can often create emotional vulnerability and a desire for closeness and reassurance. Wanting to be held, cuddled, or simply to have the warm presence of your partner can be a natural response as it helps to establish and strengthen emotional bonds.

Communication is key in any relationship, especially when it comes to sexual experiences. It is important to discuss your feelings and desires with your partner, ensuring that you both feel comfortable and emotionally supported during and after sexual intimacy.