Ye situation bahut confusing hai aur samajhna mushkil ho sakta hai ki wo aapko pyaar karti hai ya nahi. Lekin is tarah ka inconsistent behavior ek relationship mein thode common hai. Shayad wo apne swarth ya insecure feelings ke karan aisi behave kar rahi hai.

Sabse pehle, aapko apne aapko samajhna hoga ki aap kis tarah ke rishte ko chahte hai. Agar aapko is tarah ka behavior accept nahi hai, to aap usse open aur honest tareeke se baat karein. Wo samajhna chahiye ki aap confused hai aur uske inconsistent behavior se pareshan ho rahe hai.

Ek dusre ke samay aur emotions ke saath respect aur understanding maintain karna bahut zaroori hai. Aap usse samjha sakte hai ki aapko uske sath constant communication aur stability ki zaroorat hai. Aap usse apne expectations clear kar sakte hai aur usse request kar sakte hai ki wo apne insecurities ya frustration ko aapke sath share kare.

Agar wo aapki baato ko samajhti hai aur apne behavior mein sudhaar laane ke liye taiyar hai, to shayad usme pyaar ka ehsaas ho. Lekin agar wo aapke feelings aur needs ko samajhna ya respect karna pasand nahi karti hai, to shayad wo pyaar karti nahi hai.

Ye situation ko samajhna aur solve karna bahut complicated hai. Agar aapko professional guidance ki zaroorat hai, to ek relationship counselor se milna beneficial ho sakta hai.