Aapke sawal se lagta hai ki aap kisi vyakti ke liye deep feelings rakhte hain, lekin aapko unse abhi milne ki ya unke saath connection banane ki opportunity nahi milti. Ye common hai ki hum kisi vyakti ko kaise bhi pasand karne lagte hain aur unki yaad har jagah aur har waqt hamare saath hoti hai.

Is situation me, sabse pehle aapko yeh samajhna jaruri hai ki aapko ye feelings kyu aa rahi hain. Kya aap us vyakti se pyaar karte hain? Ya phir kuch aur reason hai jo aapko unki yaad dilati hai?

Agar aap unse pyaar karte hain aur unke saath connection banane ki koshish kar rahe hain aur wo abhi tak kyun nahi ho pa raha hai, toh aapko sabse pehle apne feelings ka samna karna hoga. Shayad wo vyakti bhi aapse door nahi hai aur agar aapko himmat karni hai toh aap unse apne dil ki baat share kar sakte hain.

Agar aap aise feelings ko control karne ki koshish kar rahe hain jinko aap justify nahi kar sakte ya phir aapko lagta hai ki ye feelings aapko pareshan kar rahe hain, toh is situation me akele bhale hi nahi rahna chahiye. Kisi trusted friend ya family member se baat karna ya phir professional counseling lena aapki madad kar sakta hai.

Yaad rahe, har insaan alag hota hai aur unke feelings bhi alag hote hain. Aap jis vyakti ki yaad me itna kho chuke hain, shayad wo bhi aapke baare me soch rahe honge. Samay aane par, aapko apne feelings ko samajhna aur deal karne me help milegi.