I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling sad and anxious about the situation. It's important to communicate your feelings and desires with him in a calm and honest manner. It's possible that he may not realize how his actions are affecting you. Let him know how you feel and express that you're seeking a deeper connection beyond just a physical one.

However, it's also important to prepare yourself for the possibility that he may not want a romantic relationship. If that's the case, it's vital to prioritize your own emotional well-being and decide if maintaining a friendship with him is healthy for you in the long run. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who values and respects you in all aspects of the relationship. If he is unable to provide that, it may be best to focus on yourself and seek out relationships that are fulfilling and reciprocal.